It’s sexy time! Dim the lights, play some music, have a few giggles and there you go. But wait; do you know how to elicit a yes, yes, yes from her? If not, then you might want to read this further and be the guy to give her the best orgasm of her life.
The female orgasm has often been described as elusive, but researchers say there might be ways to prompt it. Here’s a clue: orgasms are not primarily associated with vaginal sex!
But first, let us talk about these “orgasm gaps” to lay out clearly how much the women are actually missing. A team of US researchers analyzed data collected through an online survey, hosted on the NBC News website, based on responses from more than 52,000 participants aged between 18 and 65 who were in a relationship with one person. This includes 2,000 gay, lesbian, and bisexual men and women.
Results showed that 95% of heterosexual men reported are more likely to orgasm during sexually intimate moments, while 65% of heterosexual women did. Moreover, 89% of gay men, 86% of lesbian women, 88% of bisexual men and 66% of bisexual women said that they do orgasm during these private moments.
Moreover, only 35% of heterosexual women always or usually orgasm during vaginal sex alone, with 44% saying they rarely or never did. However, (guys listen up, I need you to focus) 80% of heterosexual women and 91% of lesbians always or usually orgasm with a combination of genital stimulation, deep kissing and oral sex even without vaginal sex. Don’t forget this golden trio, okay?
“To say that there needs to be some education I think is an understatement,” said co-author of the research Elisabeth Lloyd.
There are also a lot more other things in play like music, changing sexual positions or saying “I love you”. Women who frequently orgasm also usually have a longer duration of sex and does have a higher relationship satisfaction. This includes communication in bed and flirting with their partner throughout the day.
Well, there you have it. I guess I didn’t just give you the “golden trio” moves but a few other advices as well. Now go ahead and try it! (Tell me if it worked afterwards.)